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Drew's Musings
Healing from Relapse Anxiety


It's Not an Excuse: How Addiction Hijacks the Brain
If you've felt skeptical of the "disease" label, you're not alone, and you're not wrong to want more than a slogan. Skepticism usually isn't stubbornness — it's pain looking for an honest answer.
Andrew Perkins, CRS, CFRS
Aug 204 min read


My Loved One Struggles with Gambling, Not Drugs or Alcohol — Why Doesn't Anyone Talk About This?
There's no "sobering up." With substances, there's often a visible before-and-after — intoxication and then a return to baseline. Gambling addiction can be entirely invisible in the moment. Your loved one can place a bet from their phone in a bathroom stall, and you would never know unless the money disappears.
Andrew Perkins, CRS, CFRS
Aug 114 min read


As a Parent You Want to Control Your Loved One to Prevent Relapse, but They Need Autonomy, Compassion and Praise
Watching someone you love struggle with substance use is one of the hardest challenges a family can face. As a parent, your instinct is to protect and guide. You want to control the situation to keep your loved one safe and prevent relapse. But recovery is not about control. It is about trust, respect, and support. Your loved one needs autonomy, compassion, and praise to build a new life free from substance use. This post explores how parents can balance their desire to prote
Andrew Perkins, CRS, CFRS
May 64 min read


How Do I Deal with My Loved One’s Relapse? Navigating the Storm with Strength and Compassion
When someone close to you stumbles on their path to recovery, it’s natural to experience a flood of emotions—anger, fear, doubt, and mistrust.
Andrew Perkins, CRS, CFRS
Feb 233 min read


Stronger Together: Family Resilience Strategies for Healing and Hope
When a family faces the challenges of substance use, the path can feel overwhelming. Yet, there is strength in unity. I believe that families can rebuild, heal, and grow stronger by embracing resilience. This post shares practical family resilience strategies that help create a supportive environment where hope flourishes. Together, we can navigate recovery with calm, steady steps. Understanding Family Resilience Strategies Family resilience is the ability to adapt and bounce
Andrew Perkins, CRS, CFRS
Jan 63 min read
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